:: typical malay makciks ::

Hari Raya sepatutnya menjadi satu hari yang amat memeriah kan, but for me macam dah jadi satu beban pulak , i always myself trying to avoid some makcik or kalau dah TER involve in the conversation, i always try to change the topic .My brother used to think that im being paranoid or "perasan-orang-asyik-cakap-pasal-dia jer, mana-punya-jambu-jer" , but this year, he experinced how i felt , he got so irritated when people keep asking him question like , "bila abis NS ?" , "camne NS ? bagus ?", "lepas NS nak buat apa ?" .


I think ni semua sudah memang dalam our culture , or maybe they saja nak memeriahkan suasana hari raya dengan ambil tahu perkembangan masing2, ok ok, now think positive, maybe they just prihatin dengan kehidupan kita . but it will just be never-ending .


Kenapa never ending ?


It will all started right after PSLE , parents will start compare their child's aggregate , wallahi, this one, i experience it myself , lepas compare aggregate, cakap pasal which secondary sch pulak , sampai la abis poly / JC years , this is the time mothers will feel the pressure.


Nanti bila dah abis school, people will start to asked

- dah ade boyfren ? , kalau dah ade
- Bila nak kawin ? . Bila dah kawin
- Bila nak ade anak ? bila dah ade anak
- Bila nak ade no 2 , bila dah ade anak 2
- Bila nak anak no 3 , bila dah ade anak no 3
- anak no 1 sekolah mana ?, see , dah start balik tanya pasal school .start balik from stage 1

So its never ending !